"some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If youre wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesnt love you anymore"
-lady gaga
"as you become more clear about who you really are, youll be better able to decide what is best for you-the first time around."
" if a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesnt nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition to save from heartache. stop trying to change yourself for a relationship thats not ment to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.if a relationship ends because the man wasnt treating you as you deserve, then heck no you cant "be friends"a friend wouldnt mistreat a friend. dont settle.if you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Dont stay because you think it will get better.Youll be mad at yourself a year later when things are not better.the only person you can control in a relationship is you.aviod men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of women. He didnt marry them when they got pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?always have your own set of friends from his.If something bothers you speak up.never let a man know everything. he will use it against you later. You cannot change a mans behavior. change comes from within.Dont ever make him feel he is more important than you are.. even if he has more education or in a better job. do not make him a quasi-god. he is a man nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are not dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships..there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to complete you...a relationship consists of two whole individuals..look for someone complimentary..not supplementarry. Dating is fun..even if he doesnt turn out to be Mr. right. Make him miss you sometimes..when a man always knows where you are and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Never move into his mithers house. Never co-sign for a man. Dont fully commit to a man who doesnt give you everything you need.Keep him in your radar but get to know others"
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